Feedback our Whānau ASD & ADHD Assessment Story

Recently, our whānau had the privilege of going through Te Hono o Ngā Waka together with the ACFB to have two of our tamariki assessed for ASD and ADHD. It’s a journey we’ve quietly walked for years, knowing our boys were unique, bright, and capable, but also sensing there were challenges that needed better understanding.

Our eldest is now 12. Three years ago he was assessed through the public system here on Te Tai o Poutini. At the time, we left feeling unheard and unsure. We were told he was a lovely kid which of course he is but we knew there was more to the story. No clear answers meant no clear pathway for support.

Fast forward to now. With the help of the ACFB Fund, he has been formally diagnosed with ADHD and ASD. Our youngest has also received an ASD diagnosis. Finally, we have language for what we’ve been experiencing at home, at school, and in everyday life. We have tools. We have direction. We have hope.

Having this knowledge is going to be invaluable for our boys as they navigate their world, and for us as a whānau as we continue to support them to thrive.

A Process That Felt Safe, Local & Supportive

From the very first meeting with Davida, right through to the assessments with Meg, we felt completely supported. The process was clear, kind, and grounded in understanding. At no point did we feel alone or like we were fighting to be heard something that means more than words can express.

This kaupapa is vital for whānau on the West Coast. Travelling for assessments and covering the cost privately can be overwhelming and, for many, simply not possible. Having access to assessments here at home removes barriers and creates opportunities that our children deserve.

Whānau on the Coast shouldn’t be penalized because of where we live. Access to support should exist here, close to our whenua, not hours away on the other side of the island.

To Te Hono, to ACFB, Davida and Meg – thank you.
You have made a difference not just in diagnosis, but in our wellbeing.

He taonga te tamaiti. Every child is a treasure – and understanding them is one of the greatest gifts we can give.